Dear Tazin ApuI am a student of a private university. Two of my best male friends are in love with me and expressed their desire in every possible way without disclosing the matter directly. They always want to meet me separately. But I don't want. They are my good friends and I want to study or go any place all together. Time and time again I made my intention clear but both of them are adamant. So what can I do in this situation?
Reply:
The best solution is to discuss the matter openly. Ask them to come in a place where you three people always meet. Share your feelings with them that you want to maintain a good relation as a friend and nothing else. If any of them gets desperate and tries to force you, discuss the matter with your parents. So when your answer is negative they might over-react.
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