Letter to Tazin Ahmed

Dear Tazin apu
I'm 16 and was raised by my mother. Dad passed away when I was 7. Recently a man has come in her life but I hate it. I just don't want another man in our lives. My dad was a great guy and a great father. I feel like my mother is cheating on his soul and me. I don't want my mom to get married again. I don't want some guy to steal her from me. They'll probably have a new child and she'll stop loving me. She'll never love me the same. What should I do?

Reply:
How could you guarantee that you will be with your mother always? You have a life and some days after you won't have much time to look after your mother. That's reality. So if she wants someone to be in her life, it won't be wrong. You need not to fear for the worst. Just talk to your mother and ensure you will remain same whatever happens in future.
 
Dear Tazin apu
I need some help with my husband's behavior. We've been married for two years but recently I have discovered he is excessively addicted with the girls in Facebook. Earlier he was used to chat with old friends and I didn't have a problem since he knew them for a long time. But now he has started chatting with unknown girls.  As soon as he adds a new girl on Facebook, he immediately wants to get to know her and share everything about his life with her. I don't find it normal. Right now he's been talking to four girls that he doesn't know very well. Please show me the way.
 
Reply:
Try to prevent him from using facebook. You should give him more time and talk to him on various subjects regularly. When you will be around him for most of the time, he surely would hesitate to chat with anybody else. Inspire him to spend time outside with you also.